Ever wonder what you can say to help your man feel loved? Here are five things I’ve found help strengthen our bond and he greatly seems to appreciate. Remember to only say things you genuinely mean. Fake compliments suck and you suck if you don’t mean what you say.
1.) You are handsome
This one is simple, and men just like women, like being told they are attractive. You can say it in so many different ways at so many different times to make your man feel special!
2.) Thank you for-insert something you are thankful he did-
We all love to feel appreciated, and we like acknowledgement of the things we do to make others happy. A simple thank you can go a long way toward making someone’s day better. Also remember to keep doing this. Don’t ever take him for granted!
3.) Praise his ideas
In our society men are often treated stupid or inferior. We have a Flintstones idea of how men think and while sometimes guys can be dumb... so can women (thus why dumb blonde jokes are a thing). Just like not all blonde white chicks are dumber than dust, not all men are cave men. If you found yourself a good guy, praise his ideas. Especially the ones you like. And if you really think his idea is dumb, listen to it anyway and then politely give your opinion without tearing him down.
4.) Let him know he makes you feel safe
Good men love to protect their women. They have a natural desire to keep us safe and happy. If your man doesn’t have this urge something is seriously wrong. This does not mean he is overbearing or possessive, simply that when the chips are down you know he is there for you. You know he won’t ever intentionally hurt you. Tell your good man he makes you feel safe and I ensure you will get a smile.
5.) Tell him he is sexy, and tell him how sexy he makes you feel
Now ladies, this one can be delivered classy in a public setting, or dirty in a private setting (or mix it up if you're into that). Men love their egos stroked. They love it most when you mean it though. This compliment if delivered with honesty and at the right time will be likely to come off as confident, wild, and downright fucking amazing to your man.
So there you have it, five honest compliments to make him smile. Remember, be yourself and be honest! No compliment is good if you aren’t telling the truth. Say what you mean, mean what you say and enjoy giving your man the attention he deserves.
I'm a woman who sees the world a bit differently. I've studied relationships, both through those around me, my own experiences & through traditional education on how human psychology affects our interpersonal connections for over ten years. This is my story, my advice, and my not so humble opinions.